Which side should I wear my jewelry on?
Balancing the masculine and the feminine
“Is there a difference whether I wear my jewelry on the right or left side?”
A very frequent question, and the answer is ✨ YES ✨
And this applies not only to jewelry, but also to the crystals that you carry in your hands as your pocket stones, palmstones or meditation wands.
In the holistic world, the right and left sides represent the masculine and feminine sides of us, respectively, says Inge Aurore , a spiritual guide.
In this context, the masculine and feminine sides are not understood as two gendered categories, but as two energies that exist in both men and women.
The masculine energy represents active, structured and protective aspects, while the feminine energy is more receptive, intuitive and nurturing.
All people have both masculine and feminine aspects within them, regardless of their biological gender. Balancing these two energies is essential to achieving harmony, balance and well-being in our lives.
When these aspects are in harmony, we can better connect with ourselves, our higher self, and the higher consciousness.
Why is it important where you wear your crystals or bracelets?
Because the right crystals on the right side can help create balance.
And it is precisely the balance that we are looking for. Balance and healing.
To achieve balance and healing, it is important to acknowledge and honor both the masculine and feminine sides of ourselves. Some people may have an imbalance where they either suppress or overexpress one of these energies, which can lead to emotional, mental, or physical imbalances.
By integrating both sides and finding a harmonious balance, we can achieve a deeper understanding of ourselves and our relationships. This can create greater self-awareness, strengthen our relationships, and create a more meaningful life for ourselves and those around us.
To get here, we must be able to recognize where the imbalance exists:
Words that symbolize the MASCULINE part of man:
Action
Detail
Structure and order
Brave
Proud and dignified
Rewarding
Supports and ensures
Dedicating
Delivering solutions
Honoring the feminine
Detail
Structure and order
Brave
Proud and dignified
Rewarding
Supports and ensures
Dedicating
Delivering solutions
Honoring the feminine
You may experience imbalances or blockages in this side of you, and this will manifest itself in different ways.
Signs of BLOCKAGES in the masculine :
Need for control
Places blame and responsibility
Bones
Harsh and punishing
Drama and danger arise
Feeling stuck despite taking action
Performs
Judge
Pressing on
Places blame and responsibility
Bones
Harsh and punishing
Drama and danger arise
Feeling stuck despite taking action
Performs
Judge
Pressing on
Crystals that help to BALANCING the masculine:
Worn on the right side.
Hematite
Green Calcite
Picasso Marble
Pyrite
Ametrine
Emerald Calcite
Sodalite
Tiger's eye
Rhodonite
Red Jasper
Rock crystal
Green Calcite
Picasso Marble
Pyrite
Ametrine
Emerald Calcite
Sodalite
Tiger's eye
Rhodonite
Red Jasper
Rock crystal
Words that symbolize the FEMININE part of man:
Perspective
Intuition
Nourishes and cares for creation
Shows vulnerability
Enlargement
Deep and universal wisdom
Have deep trust and feel supported
Powerful
Receiving
Have strong boundaries
Intuition
Nourishes and cares for creation
Shows vulnerability
Enlargement
Deep and universal wisdom
Have deep trust and feel supported
Powerful
Receiving
Have strong boundaries
Signs of BLOCKAGES in the feminine:
Not feeling good enough
Lack of connection to the Soul
Lack of inner authority
Longing to be rescued
Want to save others
Needs attention
Needs recognition from others
Not authentic
Comparing oneself to others
Competition and jealousy
Is too concerned with how she appears to others
Judging
Low self-esteem
Lack of time, money and energy
Feeling burnt out
Feeling lost
Lack of connection to the Soul
Lack of inner authority
Longing to be rescued
Want to save others
Needs attention
Needs recognition from others
Not authentic
Comparing oneself to others
Competition and jealousy
Is too concerned with how she appears to others
Judging
Low self-esteem
Lack of time, money and energy
Feeling burnt out
Feeling lost
Crystals that help to BALANCING the feminine:
Worn on the left side.
Kunzite
Rhodochrosite
Rose quartz
Cobalto Calcite
Aquamarine
Pink Opal
Indigo Gabbro
Rainbow Moonstone
Amazonite
Amethyst
Angelite
Blonde Agate
Smoky quartz
Blue Chalcedony
Morganite
Pink Tourmaline
Hematite quartz
Ruby
Rhodochrosite
Rose quartz
Cobalto Calcite
Aquamarine
Pink Opal
Indigo Gabbro
Rainbow Moonstone
Amazonite
Amethyst
Angelite
Blonde Agate
Smoky quartz
Blue Chalcedony
Morganite
Pink Tourmaline
Hematite quartz
Ruby
If you recognize any of the above blockages, you can choose to wear your bracelet or hold your crystal on the side where the blockage is located, with a clear intention of what you would like support for. Repeat day after day until you feel the blockage is gone.
It may also be beneficial to investigate whether the blockage is located in a specific chakra to provide even more support.
Feel free to supplement with a daily spiritual practice in the form of prayer, meditation, journaling, Oracle/Angel/Tarot cards.
Written by Inge Aurore and Ditte Kreuz
