How to choose your crystals + Self Love Crystal Guide ✶
This guide is written by our amazing, fixed writer Cecilie. Cecilie has worked actively with crystals throughout life, and now we are fortunate that she shares out of her wisdom. Read more about Cecilie right here.!
How do I choose my crystals? Which ones are good and which ones should I keep me from?
How do the hooks choose the right crystals that will guide and help one?
It is probably one of the most common questions and there are many answers to this - there is not a real or wrong answer. I will try to explain how I have found to which crystals help me and how I go in a large arc outside certain crystals.
I am a very spiritual human and believe that you have to listen to his intuition, in all the choices you take. Therefore, I also use my intuition, to choose which new crystals to home to me and stay - and what crystals I need in just the moment when I could use some support or insight. I get an inner picture of how just that crystal that can help me look.
Here recently I felt very drawn by a stone who helps with imbalance in the hormones and pain in the abdomen - a few days before I was drawn by this stone, I got diagnosed PCOS, which is, among other things, characterized by hormone imbalance and pain in The abdomen - my intuition simply knew which stone my body needed before I myself had come to it.
Just as you can sense which stones are good for you, then you can also feel what stones are bad for you. Personally, I even go a large bow outside "energy booster" crystals, as I am a very sensitive person who easily becomes stressed and feel overwhelmed.
To give an example of negative crystal influence, I get the fierce heart tray of carnet and my hands starting to siters. That's why I have a small list of what crystals I do not work with. But crystals happily work differently to people, so it's just trying out - and as a bonus you teach yourself and your intuition better know.
Check your intuition! Here's how you do it:
To check your intuition, try to go in on Soulful.dk..
Use a few minutes running through all the crystals (without reading their descriptions).
Is there a crystal you are drawn more than others? Is there a crystal that you just can't forget? Do you get the feeling that you and the crystal are just "meant to be" and that you belong together? Then it is your intuition that tells you that you have found the right crystal.
If you don't experience finding the right crystal, don't worry. It should probably come when the universe thinks it should be.
In addition to using his intuition to choose crystals, you can also actively search the web, which metaphysical properties you could benefit from. There are also different categories in soulful.dk which can guide you on the right path and you can also read the various guides that I have made (these can be read under "Guides").
Self Love, Self Care and Love for One Yourself
Self-love you may think now. What is it right? And why is it important?
For me, self-love means:
- Loving oneself - because you can't love others before loving themselves.
- To cherish himself - for even if you don't feel, we all do a difference.
- To love all the little things that make you - for whom bothering be like everyone else?
- To remember to put time off to themselves - because if you don't, you end up doing "burning out".
- To care for one's body and soul in a positive and nutritious way - because if you do not prioritize "Me Time" then you can't grow pure spiritually.
For me, self-laws and what someone calls self-care is the same.
I set a fixed time for self-laws several times a day and the small moments are my favorite time. I cannot work without them at all, as I have Asperger's syndrome (which makes my brain always run 100 kilometers per hour) and then I have PCOS that makes my body in imbalance. So to care my body and soul are Alfa and Omega if I have to have a good quality of life.
I am therefore also in the belief that everyone would benefit from little self-laws.
You don't spend more hours on it. It may be reading a good book or seeing a documentary that activates the brain (instead of feeding the brain with empty calories, in the form of a gossip leaf or what I call "junk TV". Dance while hearing your favorite music, then It spreads hormones. Try to eat healthier food and label how your body and your soul will thank you. Speak and most importantly, wondering about yourself! It or all these little things that ultimately make a big difference.
And this is where the crystal world comes into the picture. Because whatever you need "Help" to, then there are always a few crystals ready to help you in the right direction and will help you in your small rituals.
Self-laws and crystals:
When it comes to self-love crystals, then there is one who always helps me and one who is all the other crystals superior-and it is Rhodochrosite. It is one of the more rare crystals in the market, but it is a crystal that everyone should own at least one of. I have it in every conceivable versions, such as bracelets, Tumblestones, Heart, Tower and as a large ball.
Already when I look at it I immediately notice the loving energies. It supports my body when my PCOS is the worst. It reminds me to take care of myself to honor myself and to appreciate my body. It is not fun that it is also called a "heart healer" as it helps dissolve emotional trauma and stress.
Besides being a good sparring partner around self-laws, then Rhodochrosit is also effective against:
Psychic: mental stress, self-confidence, supports in a positive attitude, the accumulated negative energy releases around one's self-image, teaches you that you are perfect as you are.
Physical: Strengthens memory, dissolves migraine, asthma, infections, hormone imbalance, thyroid imbalance, lung problems, depression, the female genitals.
Rhodonit is a sister crystal to Rhodochrosite. They are both unmeterable beautiful and both have a lot of loving energies. Rhodonit is especially in and supports one's self-confidence and helps one grow. It dissolves emotional trauma, bad self-esteem and negative thoughts about yourself. It teaches you to forgive yourself and those around you so you can grow as human.
Besides being a good sparring partner around Self-Love, it is also effective courage:
Psychic: Doubt, poor self-confidence, mental scars and helps heal a broken heart.
Physical: Wound healing, fertility, female genitals and infections in joints.
As I mentioned at the beginning of my blog post, I was drawn by just one stone when I found out I had PCOS and it was the rainbow moonstone.
It is known to pay tribute to the moon and the inner goddess found in all women. It helps men and women to be in harmony with both one's feminine and masculine pages, like Yin / Yang. It helps keep one's hormones in balance and reminds you to love yourself as they winding goddesses we women are.
Besides being a good sparring partner around self-law, then rainbow moonstone is also effective against:
Psychic: Mental balance, harmony, enhances one's creativity, inner self-confidence, amplifies one's intuition, soothes, helps one with showing compassion, counteracts "tunnelsyn" and lets us see the things that are not always obvious to us.
Physical: Endurance, liver, stomach, lymphatic system, digestive system, creates balance in female hormones, PMS and menstrual problems.
Mangano Calcit is like Rhodochrosit, one of the slightly more rare crystals in the market.
Have you first tried to sit with a piece of Mangano Calcit, then you can immediately feel the love soar around you. It is a powerful self-doubt that teaches you, accepting you exactly as you are. It may not look so much, but it is really an effective crystal when it comes to self-laws. I spend daily my big bullet and palmstone when I feel now it is time for "me-time" and if there should have crawled a negative thought into my mind, then there is no long time before that thought is ahead of time.
Besides being a good sparring partner around Self-Love, Mangano Calcit is also effective against:
Mental: Trauma, self-confidence, even acceptance, anxiety, motivation, emotional stress and nightmare.
Physical: Pain, pain in the female genitals, skin and immune system.
One cannot ignore that Rosakvarts is one of the most effective crystals when it comes to almost everything.
It is a powerful love crystal and if you are near it, it feels most of all that a big hug from the universe itself. It calms you all enough to go. It gives inner peace and it sends love in your direction. It teaches you to love yourself. It teaches you to trust yourself. If you have on the soul after a trauma or experience a personal crisis, it removes the negative vibrations and replaces them with loving and soothing vibrations.
Besides being a good sparring partner around Self-Love, it is also effective courage:
Mental: dissolves stress, removes trauma, healing heart, grief.
Physical: Removes menstrual pain, PMS, female genitals, fertility, heart.
Also referred to as "Master Healer".
It may not look very much as it is not as flashy as other crystals, but this should always have at least one of.
Mountain crystal is known to enhance other crystalsal energies and therefore work perfectly with the above crystals. It is known to bring light in pressed situations, creates clarity of mind, cleans your heart and it brings harmony for both body and soul.
It is a very cleansing crystal and can "reset the" mind if you feel overwhelmed, confused or need guidance.
Besides being a good sparring partner around self-laws, the rock crystal is also effective against:
Psychic: Heals psychic, balance Yin / Yang, opens up the intuitive, energy-absorbing, clarity, opens the mind, expanding consciousness, joy, positive energy, insight, guidance, overview, light, eliminating energy blocks and allows energy from flowing throughout the body .
Physical: Healer Physically, stimulates the immune system, brings the body in balance, relieve burns, cleans the organs.
I hope that you, dear reader, get as much benefit from the 6 selected crystals as I do.
Light and love, Cecilie.
